From Raleigh:
Take I-440 towards Cary, then US-1 South towards Sanford. Take exit 98-A Tryon Road. Go to the third stoplight and turn right onto Kildare Farm Road. Go through two stoplights (past Lochmere Golf Course and a shopping center on your left). You will cross over a bridge and round a curve. Look for a driveway on the right. There will be a blue entrance sign visible as you turn into the parking lot.

From Chapel Hill (or points West)
Take I-40 East to exit 293A. This will put you on US-1 South / 64 West. Take exit 98-A Tryon Road. Go to the third stoplight and turn right onto Kildare Farm Road. Go through two stoplights (past Lochmere Golf Course and a shopping center on your left). You will cross over a bridge and round a curve. Look for a driveway on the right.  There will be a blue entrance sign visible as you turn into the parking lot.

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